When any type of relationship creates an environment where you can no longer grow and prosper then it is time to move on. When you feel like you are caged in and unhappy with a situation then change it. It took me a long time to be ok with leaving an unhealthy relationship. Where I don’t feel happy, positive, and full of life. Instead, I would feel miserable and unhappy whenever I was in that person’s presence. This environment wasn’t created overnight it took years for this dynamic to occur. I blame myself partially I never moved on from the hurt and disappointment in the past. Instead, I put a band-aid on the wound and told myself, ” I will get over it with time.” Well, that time never came, it wasn’t the deal breaker, but when a person’s actions don’t match what they are saying then you have to move on.
Pick up the pieces of who you are and what you have made of yourself and start over. Yes, it is scary especially when you have spent over half a decade with an individual, but so what live a little! Never say you should of instead say I did. Don’t let the fear of being by yourself create barriers to your happiness. With time and life experience maybe God will allow you to cross that person’s path again and the timing is right and everything is in place how it should be. If things work out that way it was meant to be all along God just had to work on you and that other individual. If it does not then everything is as it should be and what is meant to be yours will come to you. This can be any relationship dynamic family, boyfriend, friendships and work. It is ok to leave a situation that no longer serves a purpose in your life.